Drinking The Cup
You Are Served

Author Connie Hagen shares her true story of overcoming sudden tragedy and grief through faith, practical steps, and the promises of God, offering readers comfort, hope, and practical tools for healing.​

The Book

In Drinking the Cup You Are Served, Connie Hagen courageously shares her own true story of sudden, devastating circumstances that crashed around her—circumstances that, even as a licensed counselor, left her feeling powerless and broken. Yet through weeks, months, and years of struggle, she discovered practical, Christ-centered steps to live fully and freely again, offering you the same tools for your mind, body, and spirit to find acknowledgment of your pain, nourishment from God’s Word, and the path back to peace, hope, joy, and the beauty of the ordinary—no matter how bitter the cup life has served you.

The Bible Study

Exciting news! The companion Bible study for Drinking the Cup You Are Served, is now here! This 6-week study is created for women who long to experience deeper healing and hope through God’s Word. Perfect for personal reflection or small groups. If you’ve ever felt the weight of grief, shame, or brokenness—this is for you. Let’s open Scripture together and discover the gentle restoration Jesus offers. Link in bio to order + free sample session available!

Invite Connie to Speak

Connie brings grace-filled teaching and personal insight to women's events, retreats, and ministries. Tell me about your gathering—I'm excited to pray about how I can serve your women. This feels authentic to Connie's heart for ministry—it's inviting without being pushy, faith-centered, and clearly communicates her value as a speaker.

Why would we need faith if we never felt the urge to question it? In this uplifting masterpiece, Connie Hagen addresses the probing, faith-testing questions we tend to ask ourselves through life’s difficult transitions. She clarifies for us, once and for all, how we should think of God in relation to our circumstances. As an integrative cancer physician with over thirty years of experience, I have been a personal witness to the journey of thou­sands of late-stage cancer patients. Common to most of them has been the question, “Why?” To help our patients find their answers, we have brought our ministry to them, helping them find hope as they seek faith in the darkest of times. I can assure you, from here forth, I will recommend this book to every one of them who asks me their unanswerable question. And in moments when I feel my own faith challenged, I will be sure to pick it up and read it for myself once again.

This book is smartly written, scripturally sound, and quite frankly… captivating. Connie tackles deep theological issues with ease and insight. Coping with pain and suffering, while embracing an all-loving and all­powerful God has been with Christianity from the beginning, but she shows an ability to make deep spiritual truths much less difficult to grasp. There is freedom in her words that echo with the Word of God. I could not recommend this book more.

Have you been served a cup you want the Lord to take from you, or maybe you don’t understand why it’s been given to you? Connie’s captivating, relatable, and raw stories are intertwined with powerful lessons. The Lord will speak to you from these pages. Freedom and healing will be delivered through her wise, God-given words.

Drinking the Cup You are Served is a divine appointment. Connie’s personal life stories, written among the pages of this book, are a testament to the faithfulness of the Lord. Within each chapter she generously shares engag­ing truths that not only give your pain a voice, but it raises the level of your awareness to manage life’s challenges head-on while also providing activa­tion tools prayerfully chosen to assist you during this season. Regardless of current or past challenges, heartaches, or obstacles, Connie’s book will serve as a trusted guide to come back to during life’s unexpected challenges.